Separate Ways, Steady Steps - A Practical, Financial and Emotional Guide Through Separation and Divorce
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Separate Ways, Steady Steps - A Practical, Financial and Emotional Guide Through Separation and Divorce
€7,95
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Get through your divorce with a clear head, a clear plan and your wellbeing intact
Divorce asks you to deal with grief, paperwork, children and money all at once – often while you feel least able to. This guide splits the process into three tracks (emotional, practical and financial) and takes you through each one step by step, with checklists, worksheets and words you can actually use.
What's inside
- The three tracks of divorce and the six typical stages, so you can see the road ahead and focus on the next sensible step
- Emotional first aid: how grief tends to come in waves, a daily coping kit, kinder ways to talk to yourself and clear signs it's time to get extra support
- Deciding and telling: questions to reflect on, a five-step plan for the first conversation and how to stay safe in the first weeks
- Children first: how to tell them together, a table that adapts your approach by age (0–2 up to teens), co-parenting versus parallel parenting, and what a good parenting plan covers
- Your practical roadmap: kitchen-table agreement, mediation, collaborative law or court, with an overview by situation, questions to ask a lawyer or mediator, and a complete document checklist
- Your money map: list everything you own, owe and earn, run a financial safety check and build a realistic budget for one household
- Dividing fairly: options for the family home, why pensions matter, child and spousal support, and a five-step approach to negotiating
- Talking to your ex: the BIFF method for calm messages, "Instead of… / Try…" examples, healthy boundaries and how to defuse escalation
- Building your new life: an admin checklist for after the divorce, settling into a new home, rediscovering yourself and handling difficult days
What you get
- 26-page PDF in A4, with 10 chapters
- 12 interactive checklists + a 4-week action plan
- Fillable worksheets: Assets & Debts Overview, Monthly Budget After the Divorce, Professional & Meeting Log, Parenting Plan at a Glance and Notes
- Quick Reference Card – keep it close
- Instant download – fill it in on screen or print it
Who it's for: Separating couples and parents – whether you're still deciding, have just separated or are in the middle of negotiations. It works with or without children, and whether your split is amicable or tense.
For general information only – not a substitute for professional legal, financial, tax, medical or psychological advice. Laws and procedures differ by country and state.
Made with care by professionals
Of great value by solving a direct problem
Designed for desktop, tablet & phone
Instant download available after payment
Details
- Format: Interactive PDF guide (e-book / digital workbook)
- Language: English
- Instant download: You'll receive your download link right after purchase, and by email.
- Interactive features: Tick off checklists, type your answers straight into the worksheets and use clickable contents pages to jump to any chapter.
- Quick-reference pages: Handy overviews and summaries to look back on whenever you need them.
- Works on any device: Read it on your phone, tablet, laptop or computer. Use a free PDF reader such as Adobe Acrobat Reader to get the most out of the interactive features.
- Printable: Prefer paper? Print the whole guide, or only the worksheets and checklists you need.
- Yours to keep: Pay once, no subscription. Download it and use it as often as you like.
- For personal use: Please don't share or resell the guide.
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